Are there any natural products sold for sexual enhancement?

supplements sold as sexual enhancers. These include Muira Pauma, Catuaba bark, Cuscuta seed and Epidemium leaf extract. You can take them all together by mouth, boil them and drink them like tea, chew them, paste them on your genitals or even insert them in the arse  - they still wont give you an erection or sexually arouse you. The world has gone mad about herbs. Herbs are not magical substances- the only reason they are so hyped up is because people who manufacture them want to make money. As far as sexual enhancement is concerned, please give herbs a break –they are a complete waste of money.

What type of condom should I use when having sex under water?

Most people seem to think that condoms are 100% percent effective in water. Condoms can prevent pregnancy and STDs but they have a high rate of failure when used under water. Water contains a variety of chemicals like chlorine, detergents, chemicals from sunscreens and tanning lotions all of which can cause small perforations in the condom and make them useless. One should be aware that spermicidal, jellies and sponges should not be used as contraception when having sex in water. These items will immediately become ineffective the moment you enter the water.

The only sure way of not getting pregnant or acquiring an STD is to not have sex.

Can I get a sexually transmitted disease if I have sex in water?

One common  myth that people have is that sex under water is safe. This means that one cannot acquire sexually transmitted infections. Sexually transmitted diseases like hepatitis, Chlamydia, herpes and HIV can be transmitted while having sex in water and make no mistake about it. Not only should one use birth control to prevent pregnancy but a condom should be used to prevent these chronic infections. Moreover, women can also develop vaginitis from a yeast infection while having sex in water. Remember many condoms are affected by chemicals in the water and cause small perforations.

To enjoy sex in water one should perform the love making in safe shallow waters. To ensure that the condom is protective during sex in water, wear the condom before you get inside the water and always check every few minutes to ensure that condom has not slipped away (more common than you think). Women who are on the birth control pills or use and IUD do not need to worry about getting pregnant while having sex in water. However, neither the pill nor the IUD protects against sexually transmitted disease

Can I use a spermicide when having sex in water?

One should be aware that spermicidal, jellies and sponges should not be used as contraception when having sex in water. These items will immediately become ineffective the moment you enter the water. Finally most people seem to think that condoms are 100% percent effective in water. Condoms can prevent pregnancy and STDs but they have a high rate of failure when used under water. Water contains a variety of chemicals like chlorine, detergents, chemicals from sunscreens and tanning lotions all of which can cause small perforations in the condom and make them useless.

The only sure way of not getting pregnant or acquiring an STD is to not have sex .

Can water act as a barrier and prevent pregnancy?

Man is a land creature and knows little about the water. There are many myths about sex in water of which the most common is that that the female cannot get pregnant during water sex. Rest assured, sperms do not differentiate between water and the mattress at home. Sperms can swim all the way up the vagina and fertilize the egg when the opportunity is ripe. Water has never been advocated as a contraceptive and many women who have gotten pregnant while having sex in water will attest to that fact. If water was a great contraceptive, there would be no sea creatures living today

Can one get pregnant by having sex in a sauna?

There are some people who believe that having sex in hot water, Jacuzzi or steam bath will kill the sperms and thus, sex is safe. While it is true that many sperms may die from the heat, remember each ejaculate of man contains nearly 300,000,000 sperms. And you only need one to fertilize an egg. And many girls have gotten pregnant while having sex in hot tubs. So use protection –it will also prevent you from getting an unpleasant sexually transmitted disease!

Can I get pregnant if my partner ejaculates in water?

Some women think that if a man ejaculates in the water (like in a swimming pool), she will get pregnant if she swims in that water. Sperms are quite fragile and once outside the body rapidly die within a few seconds. Plus, the water has chemicals or detergents which rapidly kill the sperm. It is very unlikely that sperm can travel up the vagina after an ejaculate in water and induce a pregnancy. So I think it is safe to swim in water under such circumstances. However, do write back if you do get pregnant this way!

Is sex safe in a Jacuzzi or a sauna?

Sex in the sauna or a Jacuzzi sounds erotic and sexy, but in reality it sucks. The problem with sex in an environment with too much water is that the genital secretions are easily washed away. This leads to dryness in the vagina and uncomfortable sex, at least for the female. If you are not planning to get pregnant, then you must use some type of protection. Condom usage in the Jacuzzi or sauna is definitely not recommended as there is evidence to show that heat can destroy the condom lining. The friction caused by lack of lubrication can even lead to minor perforation in the condom. 

Some type of lubrication is required to enhance the sexual pleasure of sex in water. Sex experts recommend use of silicone based lubrications which are water resistant and do not harm the condom. However, these lubricants do tend to be expensive and hard to wash off the body later on.

I have heard that having sex in water can prevent pregnancy. Is this true?

You have been reading too many junk magazines. Sex in water is may sound fun and romantic but it is an illegal practice in most public water areas in North America, unless you own a swimming pool or a hot tub. There are some individuals who believe that sex in water does not lead to pregnancy. This is a myth of gargantuan magnitude- rest assured water or no water; sperm are hardy, can swim and fertilize the egg in your uterus. If you do not want to get pregnant while having sex in water, you must use some type of protection. Condoms are not recommended as they often slip. Moreover, there are also studies which show that chemicals in water like chlorine, salt or the temperature also make the condom ineffective.

Sexpo- the ultimate in Adult entertainment

Sexpo is a sizzling Australian exhibition which focuses on displaying all aspects of health, adult lifestyle and sexuality. The show is only open to adults over the age of 18 and is run by club X. Sexpo is run in many cities across the globe including Toronto, Perth, Hong Kong, Melbourne, etc.


The Sexpo exhibition first started in Australia and the sexy theme quickly brought fame to the company. Initially Sexpo exhibitions were limited to a few Australian cities but soon there was demand from an international market. The 2008 event was held in Durban and almost immediately Sexpo was a worldwide phenomenon. The exhibition is different from pornography and tries to embrace sexuality in its natural state. Of course, the young men and women who pose at Sexpo are extremely good locking, appear erotic and wear seductive but skimpy clothing. Sexpo organizers claim that they would like to promote sexual behaviors in its natural state through education, workshop and live shows (where one can also participate).


Sexpo shows offer sexual entertainment of the highest caliber. Besides sexy lingerie and sexual toys (which can be bought); one can even experience wine tasting and get to mingle with the sexy women and men. There are also “naughty workshops” for those who want to spice up their sex life.

What is the best aphrodisiac you can recommend?

The ultimate aphrodisiac as per Dr Ruth is having self-respect for your sex partner. Sex should not be centered on the genitals or how long the thrusting action lasts. Besides genitals, there are other ways to satisfy your sexual partners. Dr Ruth says the most meaningful sexual relations start with affection, respect and honesty. Try this approach with your lover and you will not need to buy any more so called B.S. aphrodisiacs. However, if you have erectile failure and a lover, then you can always buy Viagra.

Does Viagra cause spontaneous erections?

When you buy Viagra pills, you will discover that you still need a partner to have sex. Moreover, the penis has to be stimulated before it will become erect. Men who buy Viagra will discover that the pill does not result in spontaneous erections. However, the erection can last anywhere from 2-4 hours.


Aphrodisiacs are so called “love hormones” or induce the “cuddling feeling”, but Viagra does no such thing. Viagra does not automatically enhance feelings of affection, attraction or sexual arousal. Viagra will only increase the potency of an erection but does not enhance sexual feelings. Therefore, Viagra is only meant to treat erectile dysfunction. Men who have no problems achieving an erection will not benefit from Viagra.


Men who are lonely or are trying to seek partners for sex should not buy Viagra, as it has ZIPPO aphrodisiac properties. These individuals should also avoid Craigslist for sex partners- as Chris Hansen from NBC will be waiting with a camera.