I am a 28 year old female and am seeing a new
male friend. Recently we tried to have sex and he was unable to penetrate me.
This has now happened several times. Is there something wrong with him or me?
I think he may have performance anxiety. Perhaps
you should chat and find out what is bothering him. In most cases, this is just
anxiety which resolves spontaneously with time. Make sure he is not loaded on drugs
or alcohol prior to sex, as this can also affect performance. He may have
erectile failure, which may improve with Viagra. In any case, invest in a
vibrator as you never know when it may be needed.
